This guest post is by Viktoria Barna. She has written a beautiful series of articles (This is Part 1) chronicling her experiences as a volunteer in a Nepalese orphanage and trekking through the Himalayas which gave her a new start in life.
The change in me through Nepal
After a fight with my– now dear friend- ex-boyfriend, we decided it was time we ended our relationship. And that was, in fact, a wonderful new beginning.
I sat in front of the computer for hours, applying for different volunteer works all over the world. Costa Rica, Fiji and Nepal to be precise.
I’ve always wanted to do something good, something worthwhile. This was the perfect opportunity. I thought it would be a difficult task, but I got an answer from all of the NGOs, and they were waiting for me with open arms (and pockets;)
I decided to go to Nepal, and volunteer in an orphanage for 4 months through GVN/VSN. After I’d read through their programme, I found out about the Everest Base Camp Fundraising Trek they organized. I though, “Why not, since I’m going to be there…might as well do it.”
So I sent my application, and paid bits by bits for the volunteer programme and the trek. I had to fund raise $2000, which some of my lovely friends kindly helped with. My ex helped me by sharing his house, without paying any rent, while I worked at the post office as a delivery person. He was off to Pakistan doing his own adventure.
My training to climb Everest Base Camp was sorted. I was doing my walks running, with a bag as heavy as 10-15kg at times. After work I would go for a run or take spinning classes. When I had the energy, since getting up at 4.20am took a lot out of me. Living in the country-side is great when one likes outdoor adventures, exercises.
I invited my mum to stay with me for a week, because I couldn’t go home in order to save more money, and she was so worried something would happen to me and we wouldn’t see each other again. She cooked for me, gave me massages and we would have long chats while walking in the forest.
When she told me, “I’m so scared, what if something horrible happened to you?!” I told her, “I prefer if something happened to me while climbing in the Himalayas, then getting hit by a bus in front of Tesco.” I saw a bit of relief on her face. We just don’t know when it’s our time to go…
Arriving in Nepal
I arrived to Nepal at the beginning of September 2006. Myself and a few other volunteers were picked up from the airport by a mini bus, and we were given a room in Potala Hotel. As we were racing through the streets of Katmandu, we were all smiling and I instantly fell in love with the place.
We had one week introduction in a beautiful little village called Bistachep. We lived with a Nepalese family, and had Nepalese language lessons every day. We were told about the scams in Kathmandu, and did some cool trekking in the valley. We had to use a communal tap in the middle of the village to get cleaned wearing a skirt pulled up to our necks as a cover.
We ate what every Nepalese eats every day, twice a day. Dhal baat. It’s rice, lentil soup and curry with the seasonal vegetable. We learnt to eat with our hands. We also learnt to use our right hand only, since the left was used to clean ourselves after using the toilet, which was a hole in the ground with a jug of water on the side.
We were told to watch out for leopards at night when we needed to go to the toilet, which was in the back of the garden. Great!
Once we were ready, we got our placements. I was living with my lovely aama (Nepalese for mother), who had two daughters and a son, and a little girl was staying over a lot, helping with the chores. Her parents were alcoholics, and as I understood, she was bitten up from time to time, so my aama helped her.
All of them lived in one room, and I had my own room which was the same size as theirs. There was nothing in my room, but a table and a bed, which had a blanket over it, so it was nice and hard.
The bathroom had a sink, but there was no pipe connected to the wall. When I washed my face the first time, I had water running on my feet to my surprise. We only had cold water, and oh dear, was it cold in the middle of the winter!?
This story continues tomorrow as Viktoria faces up to the harsh realities of orphanage life and discoveries the beauty of the Himalayan mountains.
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Hey Vic, great story…i’m happy for you doing all these advetures! I can imagine it’s refreshing to se how people live in a completely different surrounding to what we are used to…such a simple life yet people are probably happier!
Your mum sounds like my mums (maybe all mums are like that actually!)…she’s always put fear in her kids, always discouraging us from doing things because it could be “dangerous”! Safest thing is always just go to work, come home and look after her
Anyway, glad you managed to put things into perspective for your mum…
So i look forward to reading your next series…
Take care
Lov an dpeace
Majid
thanks Majid!
yep, mums are worriers:) just ask your pretty wife!
yet i always had my parents supporting me wherever i was,
whatever crazy adventure i decided to follow.
they were fascinated to learn about the world, their cultures through
me eyes:)
take care! i’m glad you’re enjoying the story! xx
It’s always great to see First World citizens going to countries like Nepal and engaging in volunteer work. It’s a noble work.
But when you really think about it from a pragmatic point of view, is that what Nepalese want? By this I mean, Nepalese who are in dire need of support. The kind of support they are looking is financial, more often than not. But again, this can not be solved through charity or aid. You could support them financially for a period of time but what after that? This support can not be permanent, can it? No one has that much resources to spare.
Importantly, these people need to be taught income generating skills. The first thing that might sprout to your mind would be vocational skills to start a small business or like a cottage industry. But not quite, really. Before they start a business, its market and demand has to be studied. These people are not qualified to do that. If people start similar businesses, soon the market will be saturated. A long term solution is providing them with education and employment. Nepal needs trade more than aid or First World volunteers.
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Trekking Nepal is a life changing experience but adding upon it volunteering for the children of Nepal………..well, then your soul is changed forever.
I am proud of you for adventuring out of your norm. And thank you for sharing it with everyone!